MOST IMPORTANT MARRIAGE RULES ALL MUST KNOW TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE
MOST IMPORTANT MARRIAGE RULES ALL MUST KNOW TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE
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1. LATEST TRAGIC NEWS OF SUICIDE Y A DOCTOR FOR EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS:
2. BEST LIFE LESSONS FROM 'LIFE TRAIN'
3. LEARN MARRIAGE RULES:
4. CELEBRITY WEDDING:
General
1. A marriage is one of the most beautiful life changing experiences most choose to share with someone they love. Every marriage is unique. We all have our own kind of relationships but we all do have one thing in common, we want it to last forever. We want to have a happy marriage. we want to feel loved and not have to worry if it will end in divorce. In order to reach the end goal, we have to put in the effort each and every day that you two share together.
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What is Marriage?
2. It’s the union and oneness of man and woman in lifelong covenant. It’s the team that anchors a family. It’s a bonded relationship that mirrors sacrificial, unconditional, lasting love for their children. Decide to add value to a wife, not take value. Here is the definition of a man: responsible, initiating, courageous, self sacrificing, healing, peacemaking, justice-doing, others centered rather than self centered, loving others in ways that add value and nobility to them. It can help conform him to reshaping his will and identity into union with, and deference toward, his wife.
Golden Rule
3. ALMIGHTY GOD provides the blueprints for marriage and the power source of love, wisdom, and health. Only Almighty Allah can heal any marriage if the husband and wife will submit themselves to Him and let Him change. Marriage needs to be re-explained. It needs to be re-branded as an awesome, noble, and challenging adventure. Our manhood, our happiness, and our children’s future depend on marriage—yours, mine, and everybody else’s. In a culture of counterfeits and mistruths, it’s important to understand what marriage is about. As you read through the following list, ask Almighty Allah to remake you and help you understand what it means to be a man and a husband. Let’s value marriage and relate well to our wives, whether we’re married yet, or preparing for that woman.
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Compulsory Rules
4. Follow the following rules for the highest level of happiness your marriage can bring for both of you:
Honesty
5. Be honest with yourself and your partner. Honesty is your friend amd it's the best policy. We all need some secrets, but ultimately the level of trust between the two of you should be so solid that you are able to fess up to stuff. It makes your relationship stronger and makes you a better person
Marry the Right Person
6. Character counts. There are things you need to talk about, honestly and in depth before you marry someone.
Be Polite and Generous
7. Enjoy each other’s company. Your spouse should be your best friend and the one with whom you look forward to spending time.
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Be a Team
8. Life has ups and downs. Stop keeping score and stop competing with one another. Sometimes one or the other of you has to put your needs second for the short term so that everyone is better off in the long term.
Laugh
9. Laugh is the sunshine of a house. Laugh id you are wise. It's an excellent medication.This is the great tonic of life.
Compromise
10. Spouses should be loving, caring amd possess love and respect for each other. Both should compromise in a happy marriage life. There has to be some by both partners. It can’t be one-sided, for that won’t last and gets stored as grudges. One day it will just explode and then you see the other partner getting all surprised or even shocked at some of the accusations that probably never crossed his or her mind.
Be Positive
11. Be always positive. Positive outlook can really help in “keeping” a marriage happy. If couples are only pessimistic and negative about the obstacles life throws them, gloom will envelope them. When you are in conflict, don’t wait for things to blow over. Don’t try to point out his/ her fault. Don’t try to minimize the situation. And don’t defend yourself. Instead, be a leader. Start the apology. A great starting point is, 'I was wrong. I hurt you. Please forgive me?'
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Friendship of Marriage
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12. The friendship of marriage helps spouses become better versions of themselves, closer to what Allah designed and redeemed them to be. They must face the truth about themselves, their strengths and imperfections. They will face conflict and difficulty and must grow empathy and teamwork. Selfishness must melt away if they are to become healthy, strong and mature together.
Meaning of Love
13. Love defines not by how much you want to receive, but by how much you are willing to give of yourself - your will, your freedom, your time, your emotions, your forgiveness, your resources. A husband does this by choosing his wife as a priority in his life over all other pursuits, possessions and distractions regardless of whether she is kind, lovable, or respectful. Love brings out the best in her. A man initiates love, rather than waiting for or demanding respect or kind treatment. Love is not dependent upon feelings. Decisions and choices to love can regenerate the feelings of love.
Better Being
14. They way to become a great lover is to practice with only one woman for life. It is to be generous, exclusive, and serving not greedy, distracted, and taking. A great relationship and great sex are connected in marriage, and that only happens when a man’s sole target of sexual affections, imaginations, and enjoyment is his wife.
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Commitment in Marriage
15. A man needs to know that commitment is a key to success in all of life, and especially in a relationship with a woman. One way of defining commitment in marriage is never considering divorce. If you know that you won’t be leaving or divorcing, it forces you to face differences and problems and work through them. In marriage it is the security of commitment that allows a woman to feel peace in the relationship. The assurance of a husband’s commitment helps a woman entrust herself to him emotionally and sexually.
Marriage is Not Easy
16. Marriage is not automatic and it’s often difficult. The euphoria of romantic infatuation in the first years of marriage fades, requiring the mature resolve to behave lovingly and invest relationally to build a deeper bond than infatuation. Marriage will take intentional and continual effort.
Marriage Makes You Holy
17. A human needs to know that the purpose of marriage is less to make you happy than to make you holy. Now it’s true that a good marriage to a good woman can make you happier than most anything else on earth. But if your goal is to be happy, then you will be focused on yourself and you will damage your character and your relationships. You will allow your marriage relationship to change you and crush your selfish will and defensive pride. You will experience true oneness in your marriage. You’ll be deepest friends, intimate allies, generous lovers, caring providers, complementary partners and spiritual enhancers.
Natural Responders
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18. Human being are natural responders when they initiate love, prayer and humility. They must not be passive, arrogant, distracted, or controlling. A human being will not point the finger at spouse’s behavior or shortcomings but will examine his/ her history as a husband/ wife and ask Almighty Allah to change him/ her. His heart, care and his initiative is the key to his spouse’s response and the health of the marriage.
Humbling to Spouse
19. A human being needs to know that humbling himself to his/ her spouse is the gutsiest and most successful way to heal his/ her heart and the frequently compromised relationship. A human being with courage and wisdom will never overlook his spose’s hurt feelings. And he’ll seek to overlook the disrespectful words he/ she blurts out in reaction to how he hurt his/ her feelings.
Simple Solution
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20. A man needs to know that a wife wants him to lead her, but will tend to lead and control him if he doesn’t lead and initiate. Leadership starts with your character and your devotion to Almighty God. Your walk with God determines the quality of your love and leadership as a husband.
Conclusion
21. Seek Almighty Allah. Humble yourself before Him. Seek a mentor or group to help you grow and become a good wife/ husband. Leadership of a wife is humility before Allah, initiating teamwork with your wife, praying with her every day and praying for your family. Most guys, I know well are like me in this: If you’re frustrated with your wife and your marriage, the solution lies in getting back into Almighty Allah and His Word!
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