WHAT MAKES YOU SPECIAL ?

WHAT MAKES YOU SPECIAL?

General

Md. Lutful Huda

1. Every body type is different. Everyone is unique in their own way. What makes you special is you, and you are different from the next person. You need to accept who you are without needing to fit into a label of who you should be. The size and build of our body is genetically encoded. Studies have shown that genetically people are somewhere between 95-99% different. A change in one thing can change how our genes are used or even expressed. Without getting technical, it is apparent that no one is alike in their genetics. So, what makes a person unique? Following are few different aspects of a person’s life and themselves that makes them unique:

Facial Expression

2. Face is the index of mind. The face is a mirror of the soul. A good face is the best letter of recommendation. Face can be made good in different way. If we are kindly and upbeat, our face looks animated and relaxed. If we feel down, or anxious or ill, our face looks tight and grey. What is your face like? Do you take moments to relax your face? It's the facial expression that will dictate your uniqueness.

Body Structure

3. Everyone’s body structure is different from others. While this is glaringly apparent when you look around, we all seem to think that we are supposed to look exactly alike, which is absolutely not right. Fat, short, tall, thin and everything in between can really make us take notice of how different someone seems to be.

Relationships Influence

4. Whom and what we relate to makes us who we are. Which human beings do you love or feel connected to? Whom do you feel disconnected with? Relationships influence how we think about ourselves and how we interact with the world around us. It has a big influence over our lives. If two people are friends solely with the same people, the relationships they have with them are going to differ on some level. Some people connect more than others. Some people share certain beliefs that bind them in a different way. The point is that we all have different relationships in our lives, which is a big contribution to what makes a person unique. Your conduct in any relationship makes you different. You will be known for how you behave with others. There are people who do not even care for parents, and on the other hand, there are also people who are generous towards acquaintances. Some people are very polite and friendly towards others, while scornful people exist too. So your ways in dealing with people around you are absolutely different and unique. That makes you special, loved or hated.

Variations in Experiences

5. Everytghing that you do, you learn, everything that you experienced is changing your brain and our brain is changing in breathtaking pace. No one has had the same experiences in their life. Everyone experiences differently in their day, even when they are working at the same place or spending time together. Your experiences throughout your entire life, as well as your day to day experiences, are what make you the unique person you are today.

Variations in Perception

6. The way you view life will not match with anyone else. You may have some moments where you and your colleague perceive the exact same thing, but for the most part you will see things slightly differently than him. Perception accounts for how you experience things as well as how you think and feel, so it plays a huge part in what makes a person unique.

Different Beliefs

7. What kind of thoughts are mostly in your mind? Are they daydreams, or thoughts focussed on your current project? Is your mind usually focused on the past, on the present, or on the future? What do you believe about life, the universe, or about yourself? Different people may answer these questions differently. Perhaps you won’t have the same beliefs as your dad or as your son. These beliefs are what make you a different person. What you believe is what you perceive to be true based on what you have experienced in life. Your beliefs about yourself, other people and everything else is never is going to match to someone else’s beliefs perfectly. Moreover, beliefs can change over time based from future experiences and perceptions, which means that even if you have the same belief as someone right now, it may not in the future.

Creativity Differs

8. Are you creative? Do you create at work, or write, paint, cook, or in any other way? Often people who are creative are more lively and happier than those who are not. Creativity is also the measurement of one's specialty. Everyone is creative in their own way. But there are many different creative people that we can have. Some of us are good at improvising, some of us are good at writing, some of us are good at inventing, and some of us are good at envisioning things etc. So one can not be compared with others. This is his uniqueness.

Different Hobbies

9. It is very usual in daily worldly affairs to get known for your habits or hobbies. Chain smokers, early risers, computer gigs, drinkers, book worms etc are some of the phrases which are used to describe people on the basis of their habits and hobbies. Your interests are reflected in the hobbies you build or the hobbies you cultivate, and such unique interests make you unique. We all have different hobbies, and even if we do have the same hobby as someone else, we often approach it in a slightly different way. This is why there are so many different bloggers on the same topics. They all have a unique way of approaching the things they enjoy and that is where things get uniquely interesting.

Variations in Intellectual Level

10. Intelligence is now seen to include social, emotional, and physical aptitude. Your mix of these strands of intelligence is what makes you unique.We are all different when it comes to intelligence. Intelligence stems from many things, including our beliefs, aptitude, emotional awareness, experiences, and our brain. No two people are riding on the same wavelength of intelligence, which is why it is necessary for people to come together during problem solving. What one person understands or can figure out can help the other person increase their awareness as well.

Spirituality, Ethics and Values

11. Are you drawn to the mysteries of life? Do you use spiritual practice that is meditation, prayer, or other to nurture your spirituality? Having faith in spirituality differs from one another. Practicing spirituality also define one's uniqueness. Perhaps the most important part of you, on basis of which you stand as an individual today is your ethical substance. Ethics and morals are instilled from childhood, and these depend upon the background of the family as well as the location and society where he is brought up. However the extent of internalizing social norms is purely individualistic. Also, what is particularly important from an individual point of view is your unique interpretation and acceptance/unacceptance of social order. You will be known for your ethics and morals as you will reflect in every decision you take throughout your life.

Different Personality

12. Your personality is very unique, and it is what other people see when they interact with you. Often people will describe you based on your personality that is your temperament, attitude, thoughts, beliefs, behavior, and character. For instance, you will hear people describe others as quiet, thoughtful, agreeable, annoying, or rude.

Communication Habits

13. People communicate differently from others. The way people communicate reflects their thoughts, beliefs, and personality and uniqueness. Some people are loud and say what is on their mind, while others are more withdrawn and like to keep personal things to themselves. 

Aspirations and Goals

14. What are your aspirations? Which aspirations you choose, and whether you set them determines a substantial part of our uniqueness. Do you strive for a cause that is greater than you? Almost every person on earth has a goal, or a vision, aspirations or at least a hope to achieve something. Their dreams may be big or small, for short run or long run, for themselves or their family, but their dreams exist. We all have different desires in life. Even if we have the same type of aspiration, we often want something slightly different than the next person. For instance, if you have a goal to create a successful business, there can be many different variations from someone else. 

Variations in Intuition

15. Some people have a high level of intuition that helps them decide what they want to do in life, while others need to reason things out before they can make a deduction. There are different factors that play a role in how intuitive someone is. Some peoplke have the ability to make a connection between things easier. 

Conclusion

16. The most unique people in the world are the people who fully embrace who they are and are willing to live life according to everything that makes up who they are. Celebrate these people when you meet them because they are a true testament to what living a passionate and satisfying life is all about.

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Prepared by Major (R) Md. Lutful Huda, presently Chairman of TIDAC and Dreamwork Limited, Chief Editor of 'Crime and Judgement' Magazine

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