Great Ways To Improve Your Personality
Great Ways To Improve Your Personality
General
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| Md. Lutful Huda |
1. Until quite recently it was believed that personality is permanent. However, the idea that personality is more fluid has gained ground over time. We are now at the point where we realize that we have influence and control over which traits and characteristics we want to develop or refine. Our brain is changing at a breathtaking pace. Everything that we do, we learn, we encounter and everything that we experienced is changing our brain. This changing is not related with age. So we can develop our personality at anytime in our life.
Why Personality ?
2. Personality is the pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique. When we say that someone has a good personality we mean that they are liked by most and pleasant to be with. Everybody wants to be good and attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is vital probably even more so than good looks. In fact, success and happiness will be a result of how well to interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you. On a related note, having a pleasant, engaging personality is significantly related to emotional intelligence. Those of us possessing high of that invariably have great personalities. Here are few confirm ways to improve your personality:
Be Positive |
| Md. Lutful Huda |
3. Be positive. Have a positive outlook and attitude. Be the kind of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. There is a saying, 'smile if you are wise'. So smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence.
Be Yourself
4. Don't compare yourself with others. If you do so, you are insulting yourself. Don't try to be something that you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to be a duplicate copy of others not only falls flat, but reveals a lack of authenticity and self confidence.
Be Supportive
5. Support to others in terms of mere even talking and giving suggestions or advice, whatever is priceless. The most respected people are those who inspires others to achieve their best and enables them to unlock their highest potential. whatever is being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Be the support for others whenever they are in need of it. We all love a personality who is encouraging, possess good faith and helps picking us up when we're going down. Have the mentality and attitude to extend help and to stand beside the weak people to make him strong.
Think Positively
6. Be undeniably good. Be the best. Studies showed that who keep these things in their mind, they really developed themselves to a certain higher extent. Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them feel good, makes them laugh or smile and makes them happy etc. There is a saying that positive people attract others while negative repels. So look for the required things that is a much welcome and needed diversion at times. When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you.
Be A Good Listener
7. There is no alternative to be a better listener. There is a saying, 'Speech is great but silence is greater'. Cultivate the skill of being an exceptional listener. Try to achieve the quality of the way you would look a person in the eyes, hang on every word, and make others feel important. There is nothing more appealing and lovely than having someone listen to you intently with lot of interest making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
Read More And More
8. The more you read and cultivate new interests, thoughts and cultures, the more knowledgeable, intellectual, good and interesting you will be to others. Reading and knowing more broadens your soul, mind and attitude and that will help you to reach to perfectness and positivity. Be a good conversationalist also. This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group that encourages you to talk about what you know.
Meet People
9. Get out of your house. Take a walk around your neighborhood and find things that interests you. This will allow you to learn new things, talk to your neighbours or colleagues. Get out of your closed box. Try to meet new people, and learn new cultures. When you do that, it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them. You may also make an effort to meet people especially those who unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it widens your horizons, perspectives and vision. Meet with the people who are good by heart. You will learn lot of positive aspects from them.
Treat People With Respect
10. Be honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than honesty, integrity and respect. Have respect for others as well as for yourself. Have integrity, honesty, dedication and positive attitudes to deal with others and treat people with respect.
Meditate Regularly
11. The simplest actions like meditating and thinking are the most effective in improving personality. Meditate and think about the standing of yours right now. If you have no idea on what to do, what to pursue, you may need to sit quietly by yourself, breathe deeply, and meditate. It’s important to find time to think things over. Focus on your current state of life right now and let your thoughts wander off into your past as well. Once you discover your inner personal reasons, you will have a clearer picture of yourself, and improve your personality with just the mere knowledge of who you really are. And with this renewed sense of self, you can now start meditating on who you want to become and how to best improve yourself and your personality.
Conclusion
12. We can only enhance our looks to a certain extent if we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want. We can develop or integrate into our personalities any trait we deem fitting and agreeable. To improve your personality, you have to widen your horizon. Don’t limit yourself to what you already know. To improve personality, one has to increase his/ her knowledge and awareness not only of themselves, but also of the world in general. We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however and the way we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we contribute to our own, as well as the happiness of others for sure.
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Prepared by Major (R) Md. Lutful Huda, presently Chairman of TIDAC and Dreamwork Limited, Chief Editor of 'Crime and Judgement' Magazine
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